Friday, December 20, 2013

Day 282: Confessions of a Disney Princess Fan Part 5



Rebecca’s Almost There

     Certain women are career driven.  They won’t let anything stand in their way of making their dreams come true and believe that hard work and relying on themselves is the only way to get the job done.  This description fits Tiana, the ambitious woman from New Orleans who desires to open her own restaurant to keep her Daddy’s dream alive.  Rebecca possesses a strong sense of loyalty, determination, and strength.  Right now, she is working two jobs, like Tiana, to pay her way through college classes and eventually make it into law school.  Sometimes, it feels like more than she can handle.  In her interview, Rebecca told me that Tiana taught her something about her own life.  “My mind is focused, and I forget to enjoy the journey,” just as Naveen had taught Tiana to slow down and enjoy what life was offering her.  It’s all about the memories you make along the path to your dreams that shape your character.  Rebecca admitted that she has needed to dig a little deeper within herself to humbly accept help and force herself to slow down.    Once she does though, life doesn’t seem as hectic. 

Kaitlyn- When Will My Life Begin?

     Kaitlyn is my youngest interviewee, so Rapunzel’s restlessness at the beginning of Tangled hits close to home.  When asked why she picked Rapunzel as her favorite, she explained, “She is just so artistic and bubbly and sweet.  She was sheltered in her life.  I was sheltered in my life.  She looks like me with my green eyes and brown hair.  That, and she wields a frying pan.  I mean, come on.”

     Kaitlyn also loves that Punzie listens to her conscience and refuses to do something that would compromise her beliefs, while still being compassionate.  They are both children at heart, enjoying the little things in life that make them laugh.  They also love to doodle, whether it’s on homework, in sketch pads, or with computer programs.  No matter what, they see the light within everyone. 

Conclusion: “The Happiest Place on Earth”

     Disney was a huge part of my life growing up.  I’d sing the songs from the movies constantly, read Disney books, reenact movie scenes with my toys, and constantly quote lines from my favorite films.  I was under the impression though that at some point, you have to outgrow such childishness and prepare yourself for adulthood.  When I went to Disneyland when I was sixteen, I thought I was too old to dress up to meet characters and take my pictures with them.  Then I saw a Korean couple, wearing bride and groom Mouse Ears, taking pictures and pointing at the different attractions.  I thought, “They picked Disneyland to go for their honeymoon?”  That’s when I realized it’s not about liking little kid movies. 

     Disney movies make you feel like a kid again, where you see the world through innocent, carefree eyes.  The stories cause you to feel, sometimes pure absurdity that makes you giggle uncontrollably or an overwhelming, almost indescribable feeling that gives you goosebumps; causes you to cry; or makes you feel like you can accomplish anything.  You find you can relate to the pain a character is feeling or the hopes she has.  Disney makes you feel alive.

     Buying Disney products, decorating your house, wearing Disney attire- it’s all a way to continue feeling something from those movies.  Rebecca explained that when she buys Pocahontas and Princess and the Frog merchandise, “It’s a reminder of what they stand for.  They keep me on my p’s and q’s.  My little bit of a reminder.”  It’s recreating the magic inside of your hearts. 

     When I asked my friends if they thought their love for Disney princesses was unhealthy, I received a universal response.

     “No,” Lucy responded quickly, “it’s not unhealthy.  Twilight is unhealthy.  An obsession with Disney is perfectly fine.” 

     Jazz acknowledged, “I know your happy ending won’t be perfect, but it is worth it in the end.”

     As for Nani, “I know the feminist perspective…but I don’t care.  I just love Disney…I want to be a princess…and catered to.  I understand it’s a movie.  It’s nice to think, dream, and hope about.”  
    

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